Being The Middle Child

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I was the middle child too. I guess I remember some of the struggles. This is Sissy! She’s my middle baby. Quite by accident but none the less there she is. She’s very bright, considerate of others, and super artistic. She also has so many of the symptoms of Middle Child Syndrome. But it’s ok. […]

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And Then He Turned 13

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Raising boys is hard! Especially when they turn 13 without permission. This is Bubby! At least we call him Bubby! Or Bubbies! He is super smart and has the kindest heart. He also just turned 13. And then I started to cry. You see being 13 comes with a whole lot of weird stuff. It’s […]

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So Not Good At Getting Dressed

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It’s a battle. Every single morning! I’m pretty sure I’m not alone. Are you a victim of closet drama? Let’s just start by saying… that is SO NOT my closet. First of all I have a toddler so that much white is pretty much out of the question. Second of all, while I LOVE heels…. […]

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So Not The Typical Man

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Husbands! Sometimes they’re awesome. Mine is totally awesome. My husband is SO NOT the typical man. When I’m together with other women there’s always sort of a general understanding of husbanding behavior. I mean the stereotypes came from somewhere. I’m SO ENORMOUSLY lucky! For all of these reasons: He Cooks Like most of the time. […]

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10 Reasons I’m So Not THAT Mom!

that mom

We all know them! You can spot them from a mile away… walking toward you at the play area in the mall! She looks like this! So put together her diaper bag matches her cell phone case AND the jeweled pacifier. She not only looks amazing but she smells great and has makeup on. Her […]

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What’s Next for So Not Together

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It’s funny when you start putting out there all your yuckies. Those things that were easier to keep hidden. What happens is you start finding the people who feel and think like you. And that is amazing!  But I know you’re all wondering. What’s next? What can I expect to read, think, and feel from […]

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Why I’m So Not Together- Part Two

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Yesterday in our very first blog post here, I introduced a little bit about why I wanted to start this blog. What I didn’t tell you is why I would call myself SO NOT TOGETHER! For the last 15 years of my life I have worked in an industry where the perception of perfection wasn’t […]

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Why I’m So Not Together

SO NOT TOGETHER

Admit it! We all have them. As a matter of fact I have 2. The JUNK DRAWER. It’s the place in my house where stuff goes to disappear… or never disappear. The Abyss! It’s the place in the house where you shove anything that doesn’t belong. One of these things is not like the other. […]

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